- It's true what Aibileen says to Mae Mobley in "The Help" - and I too am kind, smart and important. Somehow I forgot some of this while being married to my jerk ex-husband.
- I have been reading a blog about cheating spouses (Chump Lady) and as a result I have come to a few realizations:
- I am never going to know all the "whys" - why he frequented pornography sites, why he exchanged naked pictures with numerous women, why he slept with the 20 year old neighbour, why he started an emotional (that I am sure turned physical) affair with his new co-worker.
- It doesn't matter. All I would get from him is most likely a bunch of lies. He cheated because he could. It's not complicated. He sucks and there is nothing I can do to change that. All I can do is move on with my life.
|image courtesy EpiphanysCorner on Etsy - quote by Kathleen Stockett, The Help|
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